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New To Sex Dolls? A Beginner's Guide To Using Yours The Right Way
So you've bought your first doll, or you're on the point of doing so. Nearly all new owners hit a bout of mild panic at certain point: a 35 kg silicone human out of the package in the living space, and you standing there wondering now what? The answer to that question is this guide. Anticipate hands-on recommendations only: what you will in fact need in the initial week and what will spare you from costly slip-ups in the opening month, with no filler and no assumption that you have done this before. Read it twice: once before she arrives and once more after, as the second time through will make much more sense and helps you notice things you missed the first time.
 
Before you even open the package, some jobs are worth doing, as after she's out of the box, shifting her about gets significantly harder. Decide exactly where she's going to live, and "somewhere in the bedroom" does not count, so pick a specific place like a cabinet, a corner, or a carry case. The last thing you wish is to be improvising storage at 11 p.m. with an undressed doll in your arms, since dolls are bulky and cumbersome. Whether she'll rest on a bed, floor, or storage box, obvious the space and verify it is clean and free of anything that could transfer dye, as deep-coloured blankets, budget fabrics, and anything that might lose colour are risky. Carpet needs something smooth under her. If you've got a low bed, verify that it is not going to give way under her load in time.
 
Get everything you need ready before she arrives:
1. Cornstarch or baby powder (for TPE dolls)
2. A blow-dryer (for limbering up joints)
3. A spotless, light-toned cloth (for the cloth test)
4. A coarse-toothed wig comb (not a regular hairbrush)
5. Drying rods (for the openings)
6. Mineral oil made for TPE (where it applies)
7. A soft make-up brush (for powdering)
 
None of this is pricey, but all of it matters. Maybe about £20 pays for everything in the kit, and it is the variation between a doll that keeps its condition and one that does not. Do not tear into the package: open it with maintenance, and if it is damaged, take photos of it before you open it, as that is your only safeguard for a guarantee claim. A quick inspection comes next: verify for splits in the armpits and groin, confirm all fingers are unbroken, and verify the head sculpt matches what you bought. Speak to the retailer before you do anything else if something's wrong, and picture it straight away, as a claim gets significantly harder once the doll has been used or repositioned.
 
Next comes the component that takes virtually every new buyer off guard: she will feel inflexible. Tight joints are perfectly standard straight from the factory and do not mean anything is damaged. The joints need limbering up before you can pose her, and the technique is easy. Soften the TPE around every joint with a blow-dryer on a low setting, not hot, after that softly move each joint through its entire range of motion, working through the neck, shoulders, elbows, wrists, hips, knees, and ankles. If a joint will not move, warm it more, and never force anything. Set aside a complete hour for this. It sounds excessive, but it is the distinction between a doll you will in fact pose and a doll that ends up frozen in one pose seeing as you gave up.
 
She's heavier than she looks, and this surprises everyone. 35kg does not seem that bulky until you're lifting her from a low position and the pressure is concentrated in the wrong places, so use proper lifting technique: squat down and lift with your legs in place of your back. Keep her close to your body by gripping under the armpits and bear hugging her where possible, since the closer she is to your centre of mass, the less load you will feel. TPE and silicone both hold heat pretty well, so she's warmer than you anticipate, and the first time you touch her sensibly she'll feel less plastic than you were probably expecting. The chief reason people call their dolls lifelike isn't movement or AI, it is that the cloth truly reacts when touched in a manner that takes you by surprise.
 
You should powder her routinely, since TPE gets sticky with time, especially in high temperatures or after cleansing, and a fine dusting of cornstarch or baby powder applied with a soft cosmetic brush holds the finish even and dust-free, so do this at the end of every cleansing session. TPE sheds oil with time and needs replenishment, so oil her now and after that: a thin coat of mineral oil designed specifically for TPE dolls every couple of months maintains the cloth soft and prevents splitting, but do not go overboard, as excess oil makes the skin slippery and collects attract dust faster than dried-out skin does.
 
Cleansing isn't a one-off, it is a regime. After use:
1. Take out any inserts and wash them separately
2. Wash the cavities using warm water and mild soap
3. Dry everything completely with drying rods (among 15 and 20 minutes)
4. Powder the exterior with cornstarch or baby powder
5. Keep her the right way
 
Do not treat this as optional, seeing as if you skip it you will get mould developing inside her in a few weeks. The entire procedure takes close to 45 minutes, which is longer than many people anticipate, and it is the primary reason long-term owners switch to swappable inserts, which cut that time more or less in half.
 
The classic misstep beginners make is not thinking about storage until it is a difficulty. Hanging is best, using a heavy-duty ceiling mount rated for at least 60kg with a dedicated loop, which holds her in one pose without putting load on the joints, and this is the method most veteran owners use. Lying down works too, but be careful: flat surfaces are fine and uneven ones aren't, and leaving her on her back for long periods can press her buttocks or breasts flat, so vary the position from time to time. Keep her out of direct sun at all times, as UV damages both TPE and silicone and washes out wigs and coloured parts fast, which makes a cupboard or a covered storage container ideal.
 
The internet has a lot of opinions about owning dolls, most of which are wrong or exaggerated. You shouldn't feel you have to be "careful" in the sense of walking on eggshells around her, seeing as yes, she's bulky and she has joints that need maintenance, but she's also designed to be used and she's not made of glass. You don't have to be sheepish, as millions of folk own sex dolls, the sector has grown massively in the past decade, and the taboo has faded quickly, so if you've chosen to own one, that is an individual choice and not a flaw in character.
 
Treating her like a person isn't a requirement either. Some owners build detailed characters and characters for their dolls, which is great and part of the appeal for many people, but you do not have to, and if you just would like a doll for physical enjoyment and companionship without the roleplay, that is a totally valid way to use one. The real-world side is the only thing you truly need to get right, as everything else is individual taste and no one else gets a say on how you use something you own.
 
My procedure, if it helps, is uncomplicated, and every owner develops their own. Prior to every session, free up the joints, not for the whole hour of the first time but for just five minutes or so to be sure nothing is rigid, and powder after each clean without exception. Check the cloth test on any new clothing even if you've used the same brand before, keep a replacement wig to hand seeing as synthetic cloth takes longer to dry out than you'd anticipate and you do not would like to be waiting, and keep her with care every time. None of this is difficult, it is just the regime that holds your doll in great condition for a long time on end on end as opposed to months.
 
Most of what you should know will come from your first month, and the missteps you make early tend to be minor ones if you're careful. The costly difficulties come later, and they virtually always originate in something skipped in the opening weeks. Consider of a joint eased too aggressively, a cloth tested on the doll as opposed to a cloth, or a storage arrangement that looked fine until the pressure settled into it. Go slowly at the beginning and the rest looks after itself.
 
There's also the question of what to do when something does eventually go wrong, seeing as it will. It could be a tear in the armpit, a loose joint, or a dye mark that will not come out. Your instinct will be to panic and assume the doll is done for, but virtually everything short of a snapped frame is fixable if you deal with it early. Mending kits for TPE cost very little and deal with compact rips. Tightening or replacing loose joints is possible. The one thing that does not come out is dye marks, this is why the dye check matters so much. Learn where the fixable issues are and stop fretting over the ones that aren't.
 
A doll is a big purchase and it deserves careful handling, but "serious" does not mean "difficult." You will get years out of her if you free up the joints, powder her routinely, and put away her correctly, but if you skip those things you will be replacing her much sooner than you expected. The initial week is the hardest component, and after that it becomes routine. More info at this The Full Word on Modern Sex Dolls- The Honest Breakdown (http://team-uber.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=1983) 96_d46e  which is worth considering with A Quick Breakdown of Sex Dolls Today- Start Here (https://mybb.nord.net/showthread.php?tid=1314) and Your Ultimate Word on Sex Dolls Today- The Honest Breakdown (https://forum.oldgrumpydog.com/index.php?topic=7489.new#new). Also check out  navigate to this website (http://forum.dcm-works.net/viewtopic.php?t=12793) and don't forget  see here (http://forum.golf-club.org.ua/viewtopic.php?t=93686) and  click over here (https://www.blitzschmiede-mv.de/viewtopic.php?t=47635) for more.